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Taurus Men In Love and Relationships: 5 Signs Your Taurus Man Is In Love With You

So you’ve got yourself a Taurus man. You have been dating for a while. You want to say those three precious little words, but a nagging question fills your mind…Is he in love with you? You would hate to put your heart on the line just to find that he does not reciprocate your feelings. Read on to see if he is really in love or just lust. Learn more about Taurus men traits here.

1. His Touch
Does he reach for your hand? Does he place his hand lightly on the small of your back? Does he manage to catch your eye when you are in a crowded room? Does he bump his hand against yours inviting you to wrap your fingers in his? These are just a few of the physical signs that your Taurus man is in love with you.

Taurus men are subtly passionate. He will have a smile that is only for you and will find ways to be close to you without being overwhelming. Your man will find any excuse possible to be close to you.

2. His Personality
You might never guess it, but most Taurus men start out shy. He will want to know how interested you are in him. Are you going to commit to him if he commits to you? As you discover your bond and fondness for one another, he will open more. He will be more confident in himself and share more intimate details about his life with you. In return, he will want to know more about your life. He genuinely cares for you and what happens to you.

Did he introduce himself by fumbling over his own name? Did he stare at the ground when he first started talking to you? Did it take him a long time to even ask you out to begin with? Chances are this is more than just “like” for your man.

Your Taurus man might even be protective of you. If you have a bad day, he will want to find any way possible to fix it for you and protect you from future pain. If someone makes a rude comment about you, even his friends, he will stand up for you. He wants to be your best friend as well as a lover.

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3. His Lifestyle
Has he introduced you to his friends? What about his family? Has he asked to meet your family? Has he invited to you over to his house or apartment? Has he even let you spend the night?

As he falls in love with you, he will open up all aspects of his life to you. Not only that, but he will want you to share your life with him. He will ask to meet your friends, your family, and other people who are important to you. He will also take up some of your hobbies just because you enjoy them. You might even find that you share some of the same hobbies which will make hanging out with your man that much more enjoyable.

Can you carry on deep, meaningful conversations with your man? Does he actually listen to what you say and even respond with thoughtful comments and discussions? Taurus men genuinely care what you have to say and value your opinion. Just another sign that he is in love with you.

4. His Financial Concerns
Your man is financially responsible. He does not carry a lot of credit card debt, and he might even be a financial advisor or analyst. He has a math-oriented brain and enjoys working with numbers.

Does he notice that you shop for the best deal on shopping trips? Does he offer to pay for your dinner? Does he wait for the best possible deal on something that he really wants?

A Taurus man is not only concerned about his finances; he is also concerned about yours. He might even compliment you on your spending and saving habits. If you don’t have good financial habits, he will probably offer to help you budget your money or offer other financial advice.

When a Taurus is in love with you, he will help you work out a plan to become more financially aware. He will probably even offer to take care of some of your financial issues for you.

5. His Attention
Does he buy you small gifts? Has he brought you flowers lately? Does he take you to upscale restaurants for your dates? He might be in love with you then.

When a Taurus man is in love with you, he will give you his undivided attention. He will want to spend all of his time with you. He might even get jealous when you have to spend time with other people that does not include him.

Small, thoughtful gifts, as well as some bigger ones sometimes, are his ways of showing you he cares about you. He might even keep getting you similar presents because he knows it is something you like to help you build a collection so when you look at them, you will be reminded of how much he cares for you.

Lastly, he will pay attention to the people that matter the most to you. Do you have a relative that you enjoy hanging out with that might be a little weird, but he manages to find time to spend with him or her? Does he willingly go to family functions with you? If they matter to you, they matter to him.

There are many ways for a Taurus man to show you he loves you. These are just a few. Hopefully when you tell your man that you love him for the first time he will pull you into his arms, stare deep into your eyes, and say the words right back to you.

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Am I The Only One Left Confused By Online Dating?

I know, two blogs in one day can be over the top, but when inspiration hits me - I just have to type!

Anyone who knows me will tell you I have a chequered past when it comes to dating. I am, what you would call an online date. I am on and have been on different dating websites in the vain attempt to meet my Mr Right, or at least someone who wants to take me out for dinner!

And then, I have afternoons like today where I have conversations like this and I am left wondering if online dating is the way forward.

Conversation One

Him - Love a bit of bounce
Me - k
Him - You like skinny boys?
Me - I like polite boys, which actually rules you out
Him - What have I said that isn't polite? Please don't rule me out
Me - 'Love a bit of bounce" Would you say that as the 1st thing you said to someone in a club
Him - Probably
Me - I'm not your type anyway, so let's just leave it as that.
Him - Why are you not my type? I really fancy you
Me - (I quote from his profile" "Would prefer someone who keeps in shape but not so much that they have big muscles. No whales, sorry. I like to weigh more than the girl I am seeing"
Him - That's just a joke. You are very much my type, I like them big
Me - You referred to girls as whales just to make a joke? That makes you not my type. Happy fishing.
Him - you look fun but you seem like you take yourself a bit seriously. Don't know why you're being grouchy. Give me a chance and let me take you out
Me - No.
Him - I haven't been rude to you, your acting like I've done something awful. I'm here to find a relationship
Me - You referred to girls bigger than you as a whale, I'm not interested in anyone who refers to fat women in this way.
Him - Can I send you some flowers to say sorry?
Me - No.
(More mindless conversation....)
Him -  I'm a nice person. You're hurting my feelings a bit
Me - Boo Hoo Hoo
Him - What size are those boobatrons?
Me - Whale sized.
Him - I don't care about peoples size. I just want someone to cuddle
Me - If you don't care about peoples size then you shouldn't mention on you profile that you don't want to date a specific type of person and use derogatory term to get your point across.

I'm still not sure what this 'man' wants... whether he's trying to be amusing or he's just not very clever? All I know is that this unorthodox approach to messaging girls on dating websites doesn't seem to be exclusive to him!

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Conversation two today:

Him - I'm a big lad, not many can handle it
Me - I'm here to date not talk about the size of your penis
Him - Liar.
Me - Nope.
Him - You know you wanna date a toyboy hung like a horse
Me - Nope. I want to date a decent guy who is nice and fun to be with.

Why, Oh Why?

Sadly, these two men are not alone - and I know that many females reading this will be nodding with acknowledgement that they have had similar messages or conversations (Guys... Is it the same for you? Are us women just as odd?).

I don't know when it became acceptable to ask a woman's bust size, or how much she weighs when messaging her. I don't understand why people who message others on dating websites don't use the same rules for conversation making as they would in real life. You probably wouldn't ask a girl what size bra she wears before asking her how she is in a club, so why should a message on a dating website be any different?

I'd love to hear your dating experiences!

Debz x