5 Things To Do If You’re Single This Valentine’s – With V-day 2024 fast approaching, for some of us, love may not be in the air. But that shouldn’t hold you back from having a fun day. It may sound cliche, but isn’t Valentine’s Day an occasion that celebrates love, in general? This love can be for anyone – your partner, a cherished friend, your beloved pet or just yourself. That said, if you are flying solo this year, then we have compiled a list of five exciting things you can do to have a great time sans the undue pressure of having a partner.
5 Things To Do If You’re Single This Valentine’s
Let’s take a look!
- Enrol Yourself in a Car Repair 101 Class
Seize the chance to invest in yourself by joining a car repair class this Valentine’s Day. Consider getting hands-on experience that will give you real-world skills, learning about the functions of different car parts.
From handling tyre changes to uncovering the basics of an engine, this class will prepare you to handle minor car issues by yourself. It will not only boost your skills but also give you self-assurance while saving you money on future car maintenance, at least the basics.
This V-Day make room for personal growth and new skills as you revel in the beauty of independence and adulting. Who knows, you might make new friends along the way. It’s time for you to swap heart-shaped chocolates for a wrench this year and add this new expertise to your list.
- Bring in V-Day Surrounded by Animals
If you have a pet, A brilliant way to make this day special is to spend time with your furry friend. Have a picnic at the dog park or enjoy an at-home spa day or a pet-friendly place.
Consider taking things up a notch and volunteer at an animal shelter. Take your four-legged buddy with you to make things more fun.
Alternatively, visit a petting zoo or spend a day at the local animal farm. Sign up for workshops where you can learn how to groom a horse or shear a sheep. You can finally learn how to wield horse clippers and handle electric shears if that’s something that interests you.
Whether it’s a fun day with your pet or giving back through volunteering, make this Valentine’s a heartwarming celebration of love that goes beyond just humans.
- Binge Watch Your Favorite Movies/Series
Valentine’s Day is perfect to cosy up and binge on mushy romcoms or any other genre for that matter. All you need to do is stock up on snacks, call other (single) friends over and snuggle up on your couch and be charmed by the world of make-believe.
You can transform your living room into a mini cinema for the occasion. Bring in all your cosy pillows and blankets and don’t forget your soft toy collection. You and your fellow single pals can have an epic movie marathon that you are bound to remember for a long time.
Whether you enjoy creepy thrillers or lighthearted rom-coms, this activity is all about celebrating your unique taste in movies. Embrace the joy of your own company, swept away in a cinematic world as you turn Valentine’s Day into a delightful movie spree.
Sometimes, the best company is the one you find in your favourite films so be sure to make the most of it.
- Test Your Culinary Talent By Trying a New Recipe
We are all guilty of saving reels on Instagram of fun recipes that we all want to try out one day. Well, guess what? V-day is the D-day for this to happen! Stock up on all the ingredients, get your mitts and apron out and cook up a storm in your kitchen!
If you are a seasoned cook, by all means, channel your inner Nigella Lawson or Gordon Ramsay and go all out! Once done, carefully plate your dish and capture a few pictures to immortalise the evening. Relish not just the flavours but also the sense of achievement as you finally experiment with flavours or recipes that are long overdue.
This Valentine’s Day, let the delectable aroma of your cooking become your celebration of love. Immerse yourself in a delightful experience created exclusively for you.
- Pen Down Hearty Messages for Your Future Self
Take a moment this to write sincere messages to the person you will become. Share your current joys, dreams, and even challenges with the version of yourself waiting in the future.
Pour out your dreams, create a bucket list, or outline the qualities you desire in your next partner. After sharing your innermost thoughts, address the notes to various stages of your life such as “Open on the first night after moving into your own home” or “Open on your 40th birthday” – you get the idea.
Express love, encouragement, and the wisdom you have gained. Remind your future self of the strength within and the beautiful path you are on. Seal the letters, tuck them away, and open them in the years to come.
To Sum It Up
Sometimes, a holiday like Valentine’s Day can overwhelm you. This is especially true if you have recently been through a breakup or have been single for a long time. However, that shouldn’t be the case. Your happiness should not depend on another person. You have total control over your thoughts and mindset and what a certain day is going to be like.
Being in a healthy, loving relationship will make you very happy. However, there is no reason to feel sad about being single. Just enjoy this phase of your life and continue being fabulous.
Debz Louise is a plus-size blogger based in Yorkshire. Behind many nationwide campaigns such as #WeaAreTheThey & winner of Best Blogger at the UK Plus Size Awards, she talkas about life as a plus-size 40-something woman in South Yorkshire.
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