The summer holidays are a strange sort of gift. For a few weeks the usual routines loosen, and children get to be a little more themselves. They are also, whether they realise it or not, getting ready for a big change. For anyone moving up to secondary school in September, the weeks before term are the perfect window to build a handful of hygiene habits that will quietly make the transition easier.
Hygiene Habits Worth Teaching

Secondary school brings longer days, busier timetables, PE lessons with proper changing rooms, and far less adult prompting. A child who already knows how to look after themselves walks in with one less thing to worry about.
Why timing matters
Habits take a while to stick, and the gap between July and September is long enough to let new routines settle without any pressure. There are no early alarms and no homework competing for attention. A child learning to shower properly or manage their own washbag in August has time to get it wrong a few times before it counts.
Starting now also means the habit feels like their own idea by the time term begins, rather than something a teacher has to nag them about.
The habits that make the biggest difference
A few small things carry real weight once a child is navigating a bigger school on their own.
Handwashing comes first, and most children think they already know it. A proper wash takes about twenty seconds and includes the backs of the hands and between the fingers. It is worth a quick refresher, especially before lunch and after sport.
Then there is the body-related stuff that tends to arrive around this age. Many children start to need deodorant and a more regular shower routine as puberty approaches. Talking about it openly over the summer, without fuss, saves an awkward moment in a crowded changing room later. Keeping a spare set of PE kit clean and ready is part of the same lesson.
Dental care rounds it off. Twice a day, two minutes each time, and a toothbrush that gets replaced before it looks like it has been through a hedge. Children who manage their own teeth by eleven rarely struggle with it afterwards.
Letting them take the lead
The real aim here is independence, not perfection. A child who packs their own washbag, remembers their own deodorant and notices when their kit needs a wash is building a kind of quiet confidence that goes well beyond hygiene.
Many schools reinforce this by encouraging responsibility across the whole day, and a school that nurtures independence alongside academic progress can make a genuine difference to how ready a child feels. Settings like Tower College understand that good habits and good learning tend to grow together, which is why they treat personal responsibility as part of a child’s education rather than something separate from it.
A gentle way to begin
None of this needs to feel like a project. A short chat on a quiet afternoon, a trip to the shops to let your child choose their own toiletries, and a bit of patience when they forget will do most of the work. Children copy what they see, so keeping your own routines visible helps more than any lecture.
By the time the first day of term arrives, the washbag is packed, the deodorant is in the PE kit, and the child walks in feeling a little more grown up. That is worth more than it sounds.
The summer is short, but it is long enough to pass on a few habits that last. Start small, keep it light, and let them own it.
For more on helping children build confidence and independence as they grow, visit https://towercollege.com.
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*This article was contributed by the team at Tower College, an independent school supporting children from early years through to secondary preparation. Tower College places equal value on strong academic foundations and the everyday life skills that help pupils thrive as they move towards the next stage of their education.*
Debz Louise is a plus-size blogger based in Yorkshire. Behind many nationwide campaigns such as #WeaAreTheThey & winner of Best Blogger at the UK Plus Size Awards, she talkas about life as a plus-size 40-something woman in South Yorkshire.
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